Beyond the Cart Girl: Respecting Women in Golf
Golf is supposed to be fun, right? Sun on your back, friends by your side, and the satisfying sound of a well-hit shot. But for many women working in the golf industry, there’s a side of the game that’s far less enjoyable.
Let’s talk about the “cart girl.” A job that should be all about keeping players hydrated and stocked with snacks has, in some places, turned into something much heavier: a role weighed down by stereotypes, expectations, and uncomfortable attention.
By Natasha Ainsley-Thomas | 4–5 min read
The Cart Girl Stereotype
Some women do choose to play into the attention for better tips — and there’s no judgment in that. But here’s the problem: it sets an expectation that every woman in that role should do the same. Suddenly, what should be a straightforward job can feel more like stepping onto a stage, where every smile, laugh, or outfit gets scrutinized.
For those who don’t want to engage that way, the pressure can be exhausting.
A Personal Glimpse
When I worked at a golf course, I often felt the weight of being “on display.” The constant stares, the recycled jokes I was expected to laugh at, the feeling that my worth in that moment was tied to how entertaining or attractive I could be — it was draining. And honestly, it took away from the professionalism of the job.
This isn’t just about being uncomfortable. It’s about the unspoken message it sends: that women in golf are there to be looked at rather than respected for the work they’re doing.
Why It Matters
These dynamics might seem small to some, but they ripple through the culture of golf. They reinforce outdated ideas and create a workplace where women feel like they have to conform just to fit in. That’s not fair, and it’s not sustainable if we want golf to truly grow and welcome more women into the game.
Quick Tip Box: How We Can Shift the Culture
- Respect the role. Treat women in golf jobs with the same respect you’d give any staff member.
- Challenge the jokes. If you hear objectifying comments, don’t laugh along — stop them.
- Be mindful. Remember that golf should be welcoming for everyone.
Wrapping Up
Women in the golf industry deserve more than tired stereotypes. They deserve to feel respected, safe, and valued for their contributions — whether that’s teaching lessons, running tournaments, or yes, driving the cart around with snacks.
Golf has always been a game of honor and integrity. Let’s extend that same spirit to how we treat women on and off the course.